How to Approach More Women When You're at Bars & Clubs

Have you ever been in a bar and club and noticed an attractive woman but you couldn't summon the courage to talk to her?

How does that make you feel? Do you feel like you've missed an opportunity and that you'll never see that girl again? Because if you do then you're 100% correct. The chances of you seeing that girl again are very slim and you have missed the boat. However if you realize now that every time that you DON'T approach a girl and you know you should then you're cheating yourself out of happiness that you could have and deserve.

If you think about it for a second you have only to gain from approaching women, and the fact that you don't approach doesn't make sense. Here's the deal ...you spot a girl and there are three options:

1. You approach the girl and she loves and appreciates the fact that you had the confidence to talk to her, she smiles then you smile and you walk away with her digits with some solid plans made to meet up in the future.

2. You approach and she rejects you ... although this is bad and you may emotionally feel bad it's actually a good thing that it's happening to you and you start to grow a stronger skin. The key here is you walk away with some tips on how to improve your skill of approaching for next time. SO again you win because you're learning new skills, and if you're always learning new skills then you'll only get better.

3. You DON'T approach. You stare and circle her hoping she'll make eye contact and come over to talk to you (which never happens) and you don't approach. You don't gain anything in this scenario as you don't learn anything new for your future approaches and you don't get any numbers or results from the interaction.

The key here is to realize that you have only to gain from approaching women whether it's a new skill or learning something new or you get some results like a phone number or a date. If you don't approach then you can only lose and miss out on good opportunities.